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.In fact, if you decide to have a party, you will probably feel mostcomfortable if you specify the time of arrival and the time of departure.This is notessential, however, because if your guests do not leave when you want them to, youcould become so cool and detached that they will probably get the message to gohome rather quickly.Your unconventionality in the home may take a totally different direction.You mighthave unusual tastes in furnishings or colour schemes.Your décor could range fromthe bizarre to interesting and eye-catching.Your furniture might be constructed ofglass and steel or in some other way be futuristic in style.Or you could combinedifferent periods of furniture.But whatever you do in decorating will be distinctiveand noticeable.It may seem as you read this section on Uranus in the fourth house that there areconflicting messages.You could yearn for a stable home and work very hard toestablish a secure base.Then you might complain about being bored and / or do allyou can to disrupt it.Another seeming conflict could be in regard to the parentdescribed by this house.You could have considered this parent to be original,creative and independent, or erratic and unreliable.It is impossible to say from theplacement along whether you admired or disliked this parent, but you probably willhave seen more than one of the qualities just mentioned.If you have this placement and experience the inconsistency, the first step is torealize that there is nothing wrong with you.Tell yourself and anyone who complainsabout you that you are inconsistent and that sometimes you need structure andsometimes you need freedom.Although you want to express your individuality,making drastic changes too quickly could disorient you.Analyze your home situation.Determine what you are dissatisfied with, and make small changes first.This couldsatisfy your urge for change or lead to bigger and better changes.(Haydn Paul) With this placement, there will be a focus upon the themes of family, foundations androots in life.It is likely that there was some type of disruption or unusual way ofliving during your childhood.This could have manifested in a variety of ways, whichcan have the effect of creating either instability or a more interesting and excitingchildhood.In the contemporary world, this can often take the form of parental marriagedifficulties, family friction and divorce, where one of the parents eventually leaves thefamily home, and the children are plunged into a bewildering emotional situationwhere parental conflict and childhood emotional immaturity conspire to developinner problems of adjustment.Even adults find such traumatic crises difficult to dealwith; children often lock them away, sometimes festering into guilt associations, andblaming themselves for the breakdown of the adult relationship.There may be frequent changes of residence, perhaps caused by parental choice orcareers, which periodically uproot a child from a familiar environment and friends,forcing him or her to confront 'new unknown worlds' and so stand alone (if onlytemporarily), being forced to adapt quickly to new homes, schools and friends, evendifferent countries.Such an early lifestyle can be either beneficial or damaging;much depends upon the age of the child, the support from parents, and the individualpoint of development and ability to deal with a changing environment.In severalways, it can speed the maturation process, with the child soon acceptingresponsibility and sensibly applying intelligence to its actions and choices, as well asoffering a broader perception of the varieties and differences that life presentsthrough experiencing different communities or countries.Yet it can also create apattern of instability, a lack of roots, a need to modify 'self' without having anestablished centre to work from.In some cases, home may bea social gathering place, less family-focused, but a placewhich parents use for meetings of common interests; political, religious, cultural,etc.This can have a positive aspect in meeting a wider variety of people, yet can alsobe 'negative' in that a lack of attention and interest from the busy parents can lead toa fragmentation of the relationship bonds.Perhaps too much freedom is given to suchchildren, because the parents need the time for their own interests, and so the childdevelops without a necessary discipline and able to indulge in most of its desires; thiscould create future adult problems in coping with the responsibilities and obligationswith which modern life confronts people.Whatever the nature of the family roots, these will affect the psychologicalfoundations of the developing individual, and eventually play an important role in thedecision-making of the adult.Uranus is implying that a reorientation is required inrespect of these acquired or inherited roots.There may be problems involved in thepersonal family relationship to a social, ethnic or economic background, a reaction towhich dictates future choices, perhaps through attempting to escape or transcendthem, or in proving that success can still be achieved despite such a background.Itcan be a highly motivating factor.The issue is that of integration and stability, and the establishment of a firmpsychologicla centre which can act as a focusing self, from which the adult life isconsciously directed.This is the challenge represented by Uranus, where a newfoundation is required in order for you to experience and enjoy life more fully.Asense of inner instability needs to be transformed into a deeper, more integrativecentre, which is capable of uniquely expressing personal creativity, and operating ina positive manner.(Jeff Green) A natural stress can occur in the entire digestive system, causing overly alkaline oracidic conditions in the stomach; ulcers, gas; restriction caused by emotional duressor stress leading to loss of appetite; problems with the duodenum and its lining;deficient or extreme secretion of digestive enzymes from the pancreas, which causeseither constipation or diarrhea; imbalances in the chemical composition of thedigestive fluids within the mouth, which can lead to gum disease, acceleratedbreakdown of the enamel on the teeth, and baad breath.Uranus here can also lead tolymphatic swellings or problems in varying extremes, female problems linked withthe ovaries or womb, and male problems linked with the testes or prostrate(swelling), and can promote 'swellings' throughout the body for no apparent reasonother that stress.(Stephanie Camilleri)With this Uranus, traumas in childhood affect the emotional development, though itcan also be a powerful stimulus to achievemnet and soul growth.Generally not veryhappy or easy-going, they can be very hard to live with, as emotional complexescause a lot of trouble
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